Uncovering the shocking truth that’s preventing you from finding true love

Part 1 of a three-part series designed to help single women like you find true love:

“The shocking truth about why single women are blocking their path to true love and how to clear your road to real and lasting romance”

If, despite all of your efforts, you still haven’t been able to meet the man who’s right for you, then you could be shocked to discover that maybe you’re the one who’s unknowingly been blocking your path to true love all along.

Because, notwithstanding that, deep down, all you really want is to meet your soul mate, you could have actually been preventing that from happening without even realizing that’s what you were doing.

Just like Emma. She’s 32, attractive, intelligent with a slender figure and thick, shoulder-length chestnut-brown hair. Emma’s established a successful career in marketing, her salary is far above the average and her leisure time is packed with interesting & fun activities. Life sounds pretty well perfect for Emma, doesn’t it? And it would be – except for one thing.

She’s still single and she doesn’t want to be. Sure, there were a couple of relationships in Emma’s twenties, but one ran its course without too much fanfare and the other one (the one that she thought was a forever contender), well that fizzled out when her career fired up. Now there’s nothing on the boyfriend horizon, and there hasn’t been for a long while.

 

If Emma’s story is sounding familiar, then that’s probably no surprise because ‘Emma’ is a compilation of the stories of thousands of women just like you who haven’t yet been able to find true love. Smart, successful, engaging ladies who just can’t seem to find your way out of the dismal prospects of the singles scene and into being a happy, contented couple with your perfect man.

But what if it didn’t have to stay that way?

What if you could find out how to escape all those long, lonely nights?

What if you could follow a new path that would lead you into the warm, welcoming embrace of true love?

In Part 1 of this three-part series that’s been designed to help you to find the true love that you’ve been waiting for, you’ll uncover the truth behind why love seems to keep on passing you by – and you could be shocked to find out that, in many cases, it’s your own actions that are the real source of the problem.

Here’s why.

Have you ever noticed that, if you’re single (when you don’t want to be),

it’s hard not to get at least a bit obsessed with your loveless condition?

Especially since you’re probably also hanging out with friends who are in a similar situation, it usually means that a big chunk of your spare time gets spent on talking about the opposite sex: the lack of good men, a surplus of unsuitable men or, worse still, lamenting the fact that there are no men at all! There’s no getting away from this – for a lot of single women, if you took the topic of relationships (or absence thereof) off the table, then there would be a lot of sitting around staring silently at the walls!

Just like Emma has a full and busy calendar, it’s not as though you’ve been condemned to a life of boredom. The trouble is that, if you’ve got your heart set on meeting your perfect match then no-one would disagree that when love constantly eludes you, it can be virtually impossible to stay upbeat. After all, who doesn’t need a good cry on the shoulder of an understanding buddy when a few glasses of wine and another lonely Saturday night on your own have opened the floodgates for all those pent-up tears to start flowing?

Now, on its own, no-one would argue if you said that such a typical scenario sounds fairly innocuous.

‘A good cry to make you feel better and no harm done’.

But let’s hit pause there for a moment, and give a little bit of closer thought to what just happened.

Because, even though single friends are only trying their best to help each other through what can be genuinely difficult times, has it ever occurred to you that, by engaging in some of these common and expected rituals of support, you could actually be blocking your path to love and reinforcing your position as a single?

That’s right – it’s these typical responses which are intended to support, assist and help women manage their life as a single, that are actually a big part of the problem.

If you’re genuine about wanting to get yourself out of the singles scene and you’re prepared to take action to put yourself on the path to true love, then stay tuned for Part 2, where you’ll find out why it’s exactly this sort of scene, which is being repeated all over the city every weekend, that could actually be the epicenter of your continuing single status.

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Anthony Tran Priscilla Du Preez Ayo Ogunseinde Dmitry Schemelev

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