Find out how you may have been inadvertently blocking your path to true love
Part 2 of a three-part series designed to help single women like you find true love:
“The shocking truth about why single women are blocking their path to true love and how to clear your road to real and lasting romance”
Many solo women, wake up one day and realise that you’ve reached a point when you no longer want to be counted amongst ‘all the single ladies’ summoned to put up your hand by Beyonce’s nightclub classic anthem. Sure, when you’re up there on the dance floor singing along in synch with every other lonely heart, it might serve as a temporary mood boost but, when it all boils down, if what you desire more than anything else in the world is to meet your perfect man, fall head-over-heels in love, and be together with him forever well, even the most psychedelic disco lights won’t lift your spirits for long. Note to Beyonce: what you really, really want is not to be swaying about with your girlfriends on the dance floor to the beat of sisterly solidarity, but for the man of your dreams to do just what the song says – reach out, take your hand, and put a (golden wedding-band) ring on it. Preferably, sealed with a kiss.
If any part of that Saturday night singles’ scene resonates with your current situation, then this three-part series that’s been designed to help you to find the true lover, could finally have the answers that you’ve been looking for to give your world of romance the injection of action that’s been missing for so long.
In Part 1 of the series, you uncovered the shocking truth behind why love seems to keep on passing you by – which is that many of the typical responses which are intended to support, assist and help women manage their life as a single, are actually a big part of the problem.
Rituals blocking your path to find love
Yes, we’re talking about those continual conversations with girlfriends about relationships, or to be more precise, the absence of one in your life. All the lonely Saturday nights spent in tear-soaked talkfests about the men who are missing from your world. The mutual exchange of disappointments after another round of ill-fated on-line dating hopes that came to nothing.
Few people realise that these almost automatic rituals of support, could actually be blocking your path to love and reinforcing your position as a single.
Do you want to find out why your path to true love is blocked?
Well, to help you get to the bottom of this, let’s go back to Emma’s story for a moment. You remember Emma from Part 1 – great career, high income, fully-booked social calendar but (and it’s a big ‘but’) no relationship to speak of for a very long time. All Emma wants is to meet the man of her dreams, get married and maybe even start a family. But, no matter what she does, love just seems to elude her. She sees other people around her falling in love, but it never seems to be her turn. At night, while she’s lying alone in the dark, she asks herself ‘what is she doing wrong’? Why does she always have to be the one to miss out? At the last wedding Emma went to, she just about crash-tackled the group of girls standing in front of her so that she could be the one who caught the bride’s wedding bouquet! Things really have gotten pretty grim and, hey, if you’re like most involuntary long-time singles, you can probably feel Emma’s pain.
But it doesn’t have to stay that way.
And the reason that you don’t have to stay locked into the singles cycle is all because of a principle that comes to you from the world of coaching. Given that the consequences of being blocked from finding true love are so devastating, it might be surprising to find out that the underlying concept is not as complicated or confusing as you might have thought. But to get a clearer understanding of it, you first need to know what this principle is – and, in a nutshell, this is how it goes:
What you focus on is what you get.
Just take a moment to turn that over in your mind – What you focus on is what you get.
Then, once you’ve rolled that around amongst your brain cells a few times, spend a few minutes reflecting on what it is that you’re focusing on when you’re with your girlfriends crying into your cocktails about your lack of love and romance. If you’re like most single ladies, then a sample list of topics on the evening’s agenda might be: Lack. Emptiness. Loneliness. Loss. Heartache.
We could go on, but you probably get the general idea.
Are you stalling true love?
Everyone knows that whenever you put two and two together you come up with four. Which means that, if you’re in ‘Emma mode’ and spending a big chunk of your time focusing on negative feelings of lack, loss and heartache then, applying the principle of ‘what you focus on is what you get’, it’s fairly obvious what’s going to keep on turning up in your life.
While ever you remain immersed in this negative focus it will operate like an invisible force-field that will totally block true love from finding its way to you – which is the exact opposite of the loving romance that you want to attract into your life and your heart!
So, how about you – are you ready for loneliness to end?
Has the time come for romance to enter your life?
Do you want to begin to make the changes you need so that you can finally have the true love that you deserve?
If you answered yes to all or any of those questions, then join in for Part 3, where you’ll learn how use the what you focus on is what you get principle so that you can finally clear your own road to real and lasting romance forever!
Don’t wait any longer and start unblocking your path to true love.
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